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In Memory of U.S. Senator Edward M. Kennedy

by Nadia on August 30, 2009 posted in World Issues

Prior to attending law school, I worked for the Democratic party in my hometown. I worked on two separate campaigns and went on to work for one of the local U.S. House of Representatives for my district. I was very good at my job which consisted of writing out answers to questions posed by the local media and dealing with the concerns of local citizens.

I noticed that all those who rose up to positions that really reached and helped a lot of people were individuals who had gone to law school. So that is when I decided to go to law school myself.

My political hero at that time was John F. Kennedy and I was determined to serve my country for I felt as a first generation born American that I had the obligation to the country that had given me so much. At this time in my life, I thought happiness was external and being in law school, I thought, would bring me happiness.

I studied for the law school board exams and did well. I then sent out applications to various schools. Finally I was accepted to one school which was located in Boston and I was thrilled. Boston was the hometown of my political hero and immediately I decided I would try to get a gig at Senator Kennedy’s office.

Boston

The Turning Point

By the end of my first year of law school, I had every single thing I wanted: the dream apartment (located in a high rise building just two blocks away from where JFK had lived), I was in law school and had my dream job (working at Senator Kennedy’s office). The irony is that I never felt more miserable in my life and that is when my quest for happiness went into full pursuit. My Buddhist studies would begin six months later.

That summer was the turning point in my life and I am so grateful to have had the chance to work for someone who was truly in love with his career. When I went to my interview, they took me to his office which was on the top floor of the John F. Kennedy Federal Building in Boston. I walked in and literally gasped.

It was a beautiful day and all of Boston Harbor was below me. It was a sight I will never forget. Along the walls of the office were pictures and letters from people I had read about in books. I remember looking at a letter that JFK had written to Senator Kennedy and I could have cried. Here I was, a girl from New Jersey, standing in the office of the brother of my political idol. It was a dream come true.

When I was interviewed by one of Senator Kennedy’s staff, she asked me why I wanted to work for him and I simply said that the greatest thing a person can do in life is to help others and I wanted to help as many people as I could. By the end of the interview, they told me that the position was mine. 

The first day on the job was intense, for this office was unlike any political office I had ever worked in before. I quickly learned that in order to be a very good politician you need a lot of money because when you have a lot, you can do so much more. Each day I worked with people who were determined to make the world a better place. We debated all kinds of issues and it was a lot of fun.

TedKennedy

Sitting Shoulder to Shoulder

When I first saw Senator Kennedy, I was shocked at how small he was. I always thought he would be this super huge man but he was not. He was very kind and humble. The first time I saw him in a meeting, he did not sit at the head of the table, he sat shoulder to shoulder with his staff. He did not seem to have a huge ego and his desire to help people was very sincere.

Whenever one of the people he represented needed his help, we were instructed to do as much as we could and we usually did our best. When I was there, we helped rescue an American citizen who was held in jail in a small foreign country. Once Senator Kennedy’s name was mentioned in the negotiations followed quickly by a letter signed by him, we were able to get that young man out of jail within a few days.

I still have the thank you letter from the young man’s family because the whole experience taught me that the greatest thing a human being can do is to help another human being in need. Senator Kennedy used his power to help others.

The time that I spent working at Senator Kennedy’s office was an experience I will always hold dear in my heart. It marked the beginning of my intense happiness/spiritual quest and truly made me a better person. Often in life, people talk about wanting money, yet no one ever talks about how they will use that money to help others. Senator Kennedy was wealthy and could have easily spent his days enjoying the money that he had. However, he chose to serve his country and help those in need.

Each day at his office felt amazing because we all knew on some level that we were doing something good. His enthusiasm for his country and his desire to help were contagious. I think seeing that energy every day, even when he was not in the office, made me realize that I wanted to feel like that all the time. I eventually came to see that a career in politics was not for me so I knew I had to switch paths but my desire to serve and help make the world better, only became more intense and continues to be a goal of mine.

Regardless of where you are in the world or what your political beliefs may be, in the end we are all human beings living on this tiny planet, trying to find our way. Senator Kennedy was not perfect but he did what he could to help others and in the end, that is to be admired.  For me personally, the time spent at that office marked the beginning of an incredible journey. I am eternally grateful for the opportunity to have worked for such a Senator.

 

 

 

 

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{ 36 comments }

Lance August 30, 2009 at 6:32 am

Nadia,
What a touching tribute today. And it reminds me of just truly great a gift we share, when we genuinely help another human being. And we can do that, whether we’re someone with lots of power and money, or just an average person in our world. We can all touch another, by giving the gift of us. And what a wonderful experience you’ve had – working with Senator Kennedy – and really adding to your own insight into our world. Beautiful…
.-= Lance´s last blog ..Sunday Thought For The Day =-.

Nadia August 30, 2009 at 12:51 pm

Hi Lance,

One thing that I have come to notice is that our lives already touch one another but we just don’t see the connection. Look at any traffic jam, it starts with the actions of a few cars and pretty soon everyone going in the same direction is effected. I think when we consciously choose to be of service, then that is when amazing things can happen. It reminds us of our common humanity and that we are all in this together on some level. :)

Lisis August 30, 2009 at 7:20 am

Aw… Nadia, that’s a great tribute… one of the nicest I’ve seen. I especially like that I learned more about Sen. Kennedy AND more about you. I’m thankful you had that opportunity too, because it brought you to where you are today. It was a turning point that made the world better for all the rest of us. :)
.-= Lisis´s last blog ..Inspiration from Ralph Waldo Emerson: A New Day =-.

Nadia August 30, 2009 at 12:53 pm

Hi Lisis,

Thank you for the kind words. That summer when I worked there was a major turning point in my life. It was the start of a very long journey that got me to where I am now. Looking back at who I was then, I am so happy that I decided to take that journey. I think if I had known of all the challenges that were facing me, I might have been too scared. Often it is good to not see the future because it gives us the ability to face the challenges without any preconceived notions or fears. :)

Brenda August 30, 2009 at 9:35 am

I’ve been interested in hearing this story for months now, ever since you first mentioned working in Senator Kennedy’s office. That’s no small feat, Nadia, to have worked for one of America’s greatest humanitarians. It’s interesting that your spiritual journey began while you were working there. I could ask you a hundred questions about that time. When was it that you worked there?
.-= Brenda´s last blog ..Clever Coder =-.

Nadia August 30, 2009 at 12:59 pm

Hi Brenda,

Actually, I was already aware of spirituality about seven years prior to working there but I really had not gone studied it in detail. I had read so many books but spirituality was a hobby at that stage of my life. That summer was when I realized that if my life were going to be a continuation of what it was at that moment, I wanted out. My life, although full of success, was very empty and I felt totally miserable even though I had everything that I thought would make me happy.

At that stage in my life, I really thought happiness was external. So here I was with everything I wanted externally speaking and it was the worst feeling in the world. That is when I started to look inward. I met my first Buddhist teacher six months later and the journey began. It was that summer that I decided to find happiness since my idea of what would be happiness was shattered and that is when my spiritual quest began in earnest. Looking back at it, it was a major turning point.

As for what year that was, it was 1997.

Jay Schryer August 30, 2009 at 9:36 am

What a touching tribute! I’m so in awe that you got to meet him, that’s really awesome (in the original sense of the word, AND the more-modern sense!)

I’ve never been very interested in politics, but over the years, I’ve noticed a pattern with Senator Kennedy: Whenever I heard something from congress that I thought was a good idea, more often than not, his name was attached to it.

Nadia August 30, 2009 at 1:02 pm

Hi Jay,

The guy walked the walk and talked the talk. I am no more interested in politics but from my experience it is very rare to see a politician who really wants to help people. Most often people are so wrapped up in their ego, they just want to glorify it and kind of lose sight of why they wanted to be politics in the first place. Senator Kennedy was the only person I have worked for in politics who really did not care to glorify his ego. I guess he knew who he was and just wanted to use his power to help. I think he did that on some level.

Tim August 30, 2009 at 10:48 am

Nadia:

Wow, thanks for sharing this tribute to Senator Kennedy — it sounds like you had a really amazing experience working on his team. Based on all of the things said about him over the weekend, it seems like one word really resonates: service. I think all of us can learn from his example.

I’m sure many can easily talk about some of the mistakes he made in his life. While I didn’t watch too much coverage of his funeral…I was most moved by his son’s eulogy of his dad. He described an incident that happened while Senator Kennedy took him sledding. The young Kennedy had lost part of his leg and had trouble climbing a hill. But Senator Kennedy told his son that he would stand by him and help him climb the hill even if it would take all day and night.

Thanks again for sharing your story!
.-= Tim´s last blog ..Weekend Musical Diversion: Rodrigo y Gabriela =-.

Nadia August 30, 2009 at 1:07 pm

Hi Tim,

You are most welcome! I think so often people like to mention the mistakes of people as if to take away from the good that they did. I have read and heard stories of how some have commented on Senator Kennedy’s mistakes. I find it sad because none of us is immune from making mistakes. We all have done things that were not that wise. And I truly think that Senator Kennedy tried to repent by doing more good with his work as a Senator. In my mind, a mistake is a mistake only if you do not learn from it and I think he did.

As for the coverage, I have not watched any of it because this weekend has been kind of busy. But I did read the story that you mentioned and that was so touching. What a great example of love and support. :)

Zeenat{Positive Provocations} August 30, 2009 at 12:16 pm

Hi Nadia,
This is a truly a touching Tribute to such a magnetic personality.
And you got to meet him. Wow! I am so in awe of you :)
Its these experiences that make you YOU.We are lucky to get to learn so much from you and your beautiful experiences. Thank you for sharing this touching tribute today. I learn something new everytime i read your posts.
.-= Zeenat{Positive Provocations}´s last blog ..Peace&Happiness{Inspirational Quote of the Week} =-.

Nadia August 30, 2009 at 1:09 pm

Hi Zeenat,

Thank you so much for all the kind things you wrote. I am so happy to know that everytime you read a post, you learn something new. That means so much. :)

As for having beautiful experiences, we all have them. The problem is we do not see them as being beautiful because we are so caught up with our worries and fears.

Lori August 30, 2009 at 1:33 pm

This was beautiful, Nadia.

Thank you for sharing this.
~xoxox~
.-= Lori´s last blog ..Tom No-So Yum =-.

Nadia August 30, 2009 at 1:44 pm

Hi Lori,

You are welcome! :)

Wilma Ham August 31, 2009 at 2:21 am

Hi Nadia
You obviously listened to him and what he stood for and you heard him. I feel that with this tribute you have given him something very valuable and have returned his kindness in full.
You also beautifully describes what it has meant for you and what a great way to show that there are people who care and can make a difference. You do too as he did, two different people in two different ways, but both impacting.
Hugs to you, Wilma
.-= Wilma Ham´s last blog ..No matter what I have been told, I am NOT selfish, I AM base camp. =-.

Nadia August 31, 2009 at 9:45 am

Hi Wilma,

You are so sweet and kind. Thank you so much for all that you wrote. There definitely are people who care and try to help. We just don’t hear about them so much. I am honored to have worked for someone who really took the message of service to heart.

Hugs back to you! :)

J.D. Meier August 31, 2009 at 4:00 am

Beautiful write up. I like the way you brought his story to life with your personal experience and reflection.
.-= J.D. Meier´s last blog ..Cell That Read Minds =-.

Nadia August 31, 2009 at 9:45 am

Hi JD,

Thank you so much! Hope all is well. :)

Megan "JoyGirl!" Bord August 31, 2009 at 7:16 am

Wow, Nadia, that was so moving. I didn’t want the post to end! Prior to reading this, I didn’t know a whole lot about Senator Kennedy as a politician. I did, however, grow up reading biographies and tell-all’s on the Kennedy Family (there’s a picture of me as a four-year old “reading” Jackie O). So in general I’ve had a fascination with the Kennedys since I was an ankle biter. Come to think of it, my mom would probably love this post, too, and I plan to send it to her.

What an inspiration Senator Kennedy was. I’ve often thought that money is wasted on those who don’t share their wealth with others who need it. I believe that being in service to our fellow humans (or animals, or the planet) is the greatest mission one could have in life. I’ll be keeping what you’ve written here in mind as I move throughout my own life and career.

Thank you!
.-= Megan “JoyGirl!” Bord´s last blog ..An Open Mind is a Powerful Mind (Quote from Byron Katie) =-.

Nadia August 31, 2009 at 9:46 am

Hi Megan,

Another thing we have in common – admiration/fascination for the Kennedy Family. :)

To help others is one of the greatest things we can do. To bring a smile to the face of another is such a joy and makes life so much more fun. At least, that is my opinion. :)

Thank you for sharing the post with your mom! :)

Tom Degan August 31, 2009 at 9:59 am

Watching George W. Bush at the funeral of Teddy Kennedy yesterday was, to say the very least, amusing. It’s always great fun to witness the members of the vast right wing conspiracy confronted head-on with the theological flaws that are inherent in their philosophy. Watching that event with my pal, Kevin Swanwick, we both were mesmerized and just slightly overjoyed to be reminded yet again that the basic tenets of Liberalism are in perfect harmony with our Christianity – our Catholicism: feed the hungry, shelter the poor and clothe the naked. Oh, how I wish the camera would have cut to Bush’s face the moment he was confronted with the most famous line (and justly so) from the Gospel according to Matthew:

“I tell you this: whatever you did to the least of these brothers of mine, you did to me.”

Jesus of Nazareth

One can only imagine how uncomfortable that passage from the scriptures must have made him feel. Or how about the Sermon on the Mount?

“Blessed are the peace makers
For they shall be called Sons of God.”

I imagine being confronted with the words of Jesus Christ might make old George just a tad uneasy. The prayers that were offered up by the youngest members of the Kennedy clan, in Teddy’s own words, were the most touching part of the entire day:

“That human beings be measured not by what they cannot do. That quality health care becomes a fundamental right and not a privilege. That old policies of race and gender die away. That newcomers be accepted, no matter their color or place of birth. That the nation stand united against violence, hate and war. That the work begins anew, and the dream lives on. We pray to the Lord.”

Lord hear our prayer.

After the mass had ended, and Kevin and I headed into town to get a cup of coffee, I was almost stunned by the good cheer I felt. Ted Kennedy’s funeral was truly a joyous event. Truth be told, it was damned-near therapeutic! The politics of joy as opposed to the politics of fear. There ain’t nothin’ like it in the world, Baby!

http://www.tomdegan.blogspot.com

Tom Degan
Goshen, NY

Nadia August 31, 2009 at 2:26 pm

Hi Tom,

I did not watch the funeral so thank you for sharing with me what happened. :)

So many things come to mind which I could say but I won’t. I like to keep my political views private (the fact that I worked for Senator Kennedy says enough about where I stand). But what I will say is that I totally agree with you…the politics of joy is so much better than the politics of fear.

Jodi at Joy Discovered August 31, 2009 at 12:55 pm

Hi Nadia!
You have had so many really wonderful experiences. You seem to always absorb the best parts of everything you are part of. This was a great tribute. I enjoyed the video, too.
.-= Jodi at Joy Discovered´s last blog ..Are You Listening? =-.

Nadia August 31, 2009 at 6:05 pm

Hi Jodi,

Thank you so much for all that you wrote. I learned a long time ago that each experience holds some meaning or beauty. So I tend to focus on that wherever I find myself. Sometimes I don’t realize the beauty until later and sometimes I see it in the moment. I just try to do my best. :)

Hope all is well! :)

Jannie Funster August 31, 2009 at 1:46 pm

Really? I thought he was a massive guy too! Funny, eh?

“Regardless of where you are in the world or what your political beliefs may be, in the end we are all human beings living on this tiny planet, trying to find our way.” Amen to this! We each have the power within us to move mountains and change the world. We all have so much love to give, all the time.
.-= Jannie Funster´s last blog ..Like a bord on a wire, 10 — Double Cod Edition! =-.

Nadia August 31, 2009 at 6:05 pm

Hi Jannie,

Amen to love! Nothing is more powerful than that…especially unconditional love. :)

suzen August 31, 2009 at 5:40 pm

How blessed you are to have had this experience! Your heartfelt tribute to Sen. Kennedy is beautiful and I’m sure the vibrations of it’s love will find him.

I’ve been a fan of the Kennedy’s since the 1960′s. Campaigned for JFK before I was old enough to even cast my vote in high school. Rose Kennedy raised those kids of hers with a strong sense of public service. Sure they were privileged but they all reached out to serve. I admire that. Thank you for sharing this personal story! I’m sure it has enriched your life.
.-= suzen´s last blog ..Let’s Do Lunch! AND Help Mother Earth! =-.

Nadia August 31, 2009 at 6:06 pm

Hi Suzen,

How cool that you campaigned for JFK! That must have been fun considering how tight that race was with Nixon.

I agree with you that the fact that they were compelled to serve despite their wealth is admirable. I wish more people were drawn to such a cause because it truly is a wonderful feeling to help others. :)

Barbara Swafford September 1, 2009 at 2:55 am

Hi Nadia,

This is such a beautiful tribute. To work shoulder to shoulder with Senator Kennedy was truly an honor. Thank you for sharing your story.

Like you, I find it amazing how even though he had enough money where he didn’t have to work, he used his time, money and influence to help others. I agree, to realize true happiness in life, we’ll find it in service to others and the Kennedy’s did that very well.
.-= Barbara Swafford´s last blog ..Is Blogging Fullfilling Your Objective =-.

Nadia September 1, 2009 at 9:42 am

Hi Barbara,

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. The quote that comes to mind upon reading your comment is the phrase “from those who have been given much, much is expected” or something to that effect. I agree with you that true happiness comes from helping others. For that is when a person looks beyond their own needs and sees the needs in others. We are in this boat together. :)

Evelyn Lim September 1, 2009 at 9:57 pm

I found the story very inspirational. He certainly has been putting his wealth to good use. He is not afraid to share. You have clearly demonstrated that money has been used as a means to spread love. There is nothing “wrong” or “evil” in being financially wealthy!
.-= Evelyn Lim´s last blog ..Angelic Reiki Healing with Angels, Archangels and Ascended Masters =-.

Nadia September 2, 2009 at 9:49 am

Hi Evelyn,

Thank you for the kind words. Having money or being wealthy is definitely not evil especially if that money is put to good use.

I think it is beautiful when people decide to help one another regardless of their economic status. Being of service is a great way to be. :)

Ann-Marie September 2, 2009 at 6:11 am

Hi there Nadia.
As Marianne Williamson said “We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same”.
To me it looks like working with Senator Kennedy flicked the switch and we now get to see you, Nadia shining in all your glory. We are witness to someone living a life they believe in ‘a desire to serve and help make the world better’. And I am grateful for that.
Beautiful tribute Nadia.
Hugs
.-= Ann-Marie´s last blog ..No matter what I have been told, I am NOT selfish, I AM base camp. =-.

Nadia September 2, 2009 at 9:50 am

Hi Ann-Marie,

Thank you for all the kind things you wrote. :) I liked your description of a light switch being turned on. As I mentioned in a previous reply, I was already into reading spiritual books but was not a very serious student. Then that summer, when I realized how empty I felt and that I wanted more, that is when my spiritual quest went into full power. I am so grateful because I love where I am now in my life. The Universe works in interesting ways. :)

Hugs back!

Hilary September 4, 2009 at 7:59 am

Hi Nadia .. I came earlier and then time overtook .. and it has again – but I know it was really well written – and I remember that you were able to achieve what you wanted to quite early – but then suddenly realised .. that ‘that life’ wasn’t for you.

I have to say it’s great you took the step and you’re here today and our paths have crossed – your story is inspiring and I’m sure some day you’ll have a chance to share it on a larger stage – it deserves to be told.

However – working for the Senator, in such auspicious surroundings, with the opportunity that wealth and his vision for life (once he’d sorted himself out – but they had some trials as a family – even if wealth – it can’t cater for murder x 2, or disasters of his own making – he had to work things out ..), together with the other employees or his confidantes .. must be a once in a lifetime opportunity for most of us – and be able to grasp and take away so much learning.

Somewhere – ?!? -” God” gave you a wise head .. thank you for being you and for being with us today ..
Here’s to a great giving future ..
Hilary Melton-Butcher
Positive Letters Inspirational Stories
.-= Hilary´s last blog ..Where are Pelicans? =-.

Nadia September 4, 2009 at 10:02 am

Hi Hilary,

I am so touched. Thank you so much for all that you said. Your words could not have come at a better time today. :)

I guess some people are sponges and absorb everything around them…maybe I am like that. I don’t know. What I do know is that I am happy that we crossed paths too. I hope that you are doing well and that your mother is comfortable. Have a beautiful day, my dear friend! :)

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