The following post is something that I have been wanting to write about for quite sometime. What prevented me in the past is that I could not figure out a way to say all that I wanted in one post.
For some reason or another, it was not until this past weekend when it occurred to me that it could be made up of two parts. Talk about having a delayed reaction! So here is part one and the second part will be published on Sunday.
I would like to share with you what happens in my mind when I go out into the world. From my perspective, I have only two options. I can either be like John the Baptist or like Jesus Christ (or the Buddha or His Holiness the Dalai Lama – depends on the mood of the day).
For the record, please know that I am not a Biblical scholar. The Bible has been edited and translated numerous times and we have no definite account of what exactly happened. What we do know is that there was a man called John the Baptist who was beheaded and we know that there was a man named Jesus who performed miracles and was crucified only to have his body disappear three days later. So I am referring to these two men from a historical perspective.
I realize that all of this may sound crazy but hear me out…I do have a sense of humor as will be evident by what I am about to share.
Years before I fully became immersed in my spiritual path, I had a very low tolerance for hypocrisy. During that phase of my life, I did believe in absolute truths (I no longer believe in absolute truths) and if people claimed to be spiritual and did something not spiritual, I would have a fit.
Being that I was no stranger to suffering and was accustomed to taking care of myself, I had no problem telling people of their hypocrisy. My desire to be truthful to the path was of such great importance, it never occurred to me that my actions could be construed as being rude or mean.
If someone did something that contradicted what they claimed to be, I would tell the other person they were being hypocritical. This behavior of mine was never welcomed with open arms. The irony is that I thought I was doing the right thing.
When I was miserable, I was a perfectionist and I placed a very high standard of behavior on myself. I expected others to do the same and when people did not do what I did, I thought they were the biggest hypocrites on the planet.
How could a person claim to be spiritual and yet gossip with delight over the pain of others? Questions like this would send me into a hurricane of frustration. How dare they do such things? As you can see, I was not very compassionate even though I thought that I was. To be blunt, I was not compassionate with myself so there was no way I could be compassionate with others. I did not see that then…but with time I did.
Looking back at that time, I realize that my heart was in the right place but because I was lacking in inner peace, it was hard to look at others with a sense of tolerance. In my mind, there were certain rules and they had to be followed. If someone did not follow the rules, they were not being true to the path.
It was that simple in my mind. I am so grateful that I have grown so much since then but this old way of being brings me to my point about how when I go out into the world, I have a choice as to how I want to engage in the world.
John the Baptist was related to Jesus since both of their mothers were cousins. He was considered to be the one who helped pave the way for Jesus. John had no problem telling other people of their hypocrisy. Actually, he was quite vocal on how King Herod had violated Jewish law by marrying the wife of his brother who was now dead.
In the Bible, John is quoted as telling his followers:
“Then he said to the multitudes that came out to be baptized by him, ‘Brood of vipers! Who warned you to flee from the wrath to come?” Luke 3:7
I do not know about you but if someone is telling you that you are a part of a brood of vipers, you are not going to be too willing to hear what the dude has to say. To be fair, John lived on locusts and honey so when you are living life so simply and trying to live with truth, it is kind of hard to tolerate the weird things that people do.
In my mind, his passion for God was so immense he just wanted people to know what he knew and to help them. That might have gotten lost due to the delivery of his message yet many people chose to be baptized by him. However, those in power did feel threatened by him.
John’s actions scared the wife of King Herod so much that when John was imprisoned, she used her daughter to lure King Herod to grant her a wish. So the daughter danced a provocative dance and as a result, King Herod told her that he would grant her wish. Her wish was to have John beheaded. The King had no other choice but to keep his word.
Let’s face it, we all have moments when we get irritated by the actions of others. Even though I no longer engage in the behavior that I described above, I do have moments when I see hypocrisy which makes my blood boil.
For example, how can a person who calls themselves a Christian be a member of the Ku Klux Clan? How is that possible? I have seen people justify their racist or nationalistic behavior by saying that they are followers of Christ. Whenever I have seen such things, I often feel like jumping on top of a mountain and screaming from the top of my lungs: “Brood of vipers…wake up and realize how idiotic you sound.”
The minute I have that thought, I start to laugh because I see an image of John the Baptist in sheep’s wool, screaming and I recall how unattractive that is compared to the cool and calm behavior of Jesus.
One recurring theme in spiritual history (regardless of the tradition) is that each prophet that comes prepares the way for whomever is coming next. It is like each prophet adds on to the wisdom and knowledge shared by the predecessor. John the Baptist did pave the way for Christ and his message of Christ consciousness that will be discussed in part two which will be published on Sunday.
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It’s so easy to judge on first appearances.
One example for me is someone I knew that got fired. He did something really stupid at work and was let go. Everyone, of course, judged him. “He deserved it!”. There was blame of him and feeling he let everyone down. Then after a long time, we heard he had some mental illness issues and he was honestly doing his best. Amazing how that turns things around.
This has been a last big day for me. I was in meditation last night and felt so much emotion – including the strong feeling “I wish my mother was dead”. Easy to judge at that, right? Well, she’s borderline personality and hasn’t been fully able to respect any boundaries I’ve set my entire life. Yesterday I heard that she hit her head and was in ICU, in a coma, on a ventilator. Feelings just come up.
When it comes down to it, the more wisdom we have, the more we reserve judgment. There is always something more to see, something more that will make us realize this person in front of us deserves the utmost compassion. No matter what we start with – such as a perception someone is evil – there is always something more, something of nothing but beauty.
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Hi Matthew,
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. I hope your mother’s condition improves. Your story shows how life can change in an instant.
And as for judgment, I hear you and totally agree. Part two goes into this subject a bit more so I won’t comment on it until after Part two is published. What I will say now is that none of us fully knows what is happening in the life of another person so the best thing we can do is to just be and give compassion. Judgment destroys, compassion heals.
Hi Nadia,
I found your site through MommyMystic. I’m looking forward to part 2. I recognize parts of myself in your story about how I used to be so judgmental. It was only when I realized I was also judging myself so harshly that I began to loosen my rigid standards for others (and myself). My spiritual path sped up after that. I gave myself and others a break.
I’ve come to recognize the divine light in others–sometimes it stays to shine brightly like a streetlight and sometimes it’s the fleeting glow of a flashlight depending upon the person. But it’s good to recognize it and appreciate it even though its time might be brief. I think we are all working towards keeping our divine light on at all times. That’s why we are here. Thanks for your post. I look forward to Sunday’s and I hope my comment makes sense.
In light,
Melinda Pajak
http://www.themelindachannel.com
.-= Melinda Pajak´s last blog ..Gift Ideas for the Spiritually Minded =-.
Hi Melinda,
I am so happy that you found my site via MommyMystic. Lisa runs a great site and no worries, everything you said makes total sense.
Your words about how your spiritual path sped up after you began to be more loving towards youself and others is something that I can relate to on every level. My journey was somewhat similar. As a result of such a path, I have come to see that the Divine lives within every person and there are days where I can feel that universal connection so vividly, I could explode from the joy and power of that love. Those are my bliss days. I love days like that because it is just so amazing to feel that energy. That said, there are days when I cannot tap into that energy but I do see that Divine light in others and you are right, it is so powerful even if it is brief.
And thank you so much for saying that you look forward to part two. I hope you will enjoy it!
Coming from a long-brooded nest of vipers myself….. I have traveled far on my path to your blog of enlightenment.
I think I’ve quoted the Mother Theresa nugget here before… “When we judge we leave no room for love.” (Or something close to those words.)
I no longer believe in absolute truth either, but do believe that love and compassion must be pretty close to it. We can let our hearts guide us in this. And the more we seek, the closer we get to purity.
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Hi Jannie,
No worries, I come from a long-brooded nest of vipers too.
That Mother Teresa quote is just perfect. I am all for leaving room for love. For love is truly the most powerful force in the Universe. Love can do wonders.
And amen to being guided by the heart. I really believe in that and you are so right, being pure means being love and love without conditions.
Very nice. For a time, I also held a great disdain for the hypocrisy. Since then I have come to believe that everyone is one their own path, and it’s not my place to judge their path. I cannot know the reasons for the actions of others, I just have to trust that they are progressing along their path just as they are meant to. I look forward to part 2.
.-= Eric | Eden Journal´s last blog ..The Post Movie High – That good feeling you get after watching a great movie. =-.
Hi Eric,
Thank you so much for being open about how you used to also have a low tolerance for hypocrisy. I think that is something that we all struggle with and it is awesome that you have come to develop such a compassionate view towards other people’s path. I hope that you like part two as much as part one.
Hope all is awesome!
Hi Nadia,
Over time I’ve learned to try and not judge, although there are times when first impressions will tip the scales and I find myself going down that path. After a slap upside the head, I remind myself what we “see” is not necessarily the truth. Everyone has a story to tell and in most instances there is more to the situation than meets the eye.
Your story reminds me of the “Do unto others…” saying.
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Hi Barbara,
First impressions are interesting situations, aren’t they? In my experience, I found people are usually are on their best behavior the first time they meet and you only truly get to know someone over time. So I usually don’t give much thought to first impressions…took me some time to get to that point but it was worth the journey. And you are so right, often we do need to give ourselves a slap on the head to remind ourselves to not judge.
Hi again Nadia,
I’m glad you understood my point. Sometimes I get so excited to comment, I’m not all that clear. Anyway, I poked around a bit more on your site and I am so happy to have found it. I love your ideas and thoughts and stories–a kindred spirit. Nice to meet you in cyberspace. Thanks for following your passion–it gives us all a little boost to try and follow ours.
Namasté,
Melinda
.-= Melinda Pajak´s last blog ..Gift Ideas for the Spiritually Minded =-.
Hi Melinda,
Thank you so much for writing back and for all that you wrote. You made my day! It is always nice to meet another fellow kindred spirit. A person can never have too many friends.
As for what you wrote about following my passion, I have come to realize that there is just no other way to be. Life is too short. Plus if we are not true to who we are then it is a waste. In Eastern thought, it is said that a human embodiment is a rare gift so there is no need to waste it on pretending or not living to your fullest potential.
Namaste to you too!
Another freaky moment.
And I LOVE it! ^_^
Hi Eva,
That is so cool. Thank you so much for saying that you loved it!
Nadia,
This idea of judging one another is something of focus in my life in the recent last couple of years. And I’ve really come to believe that I have no right to judge another. How do I know what has brought them to this point where they are at today? How do I know what it is like to have walked in their shoes for a day, for a week, for a lifetime? I can never fully understand all of someone else’s life circumstances that have led up to where they are today. And if I can’t, then how can I judge them? It’s where I really believe that compassion comes in. Because, through compassion, I can show that I care – no matter how much or little I truly understand.
Nadia, you are a true warrior in compassion…it’s something I feel in all that you share. It’s part of what makes coming here so good for me…to be wrapped up in love and compassion, and to feel safe in sharing openly…
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Hi Lance,
Part two really goes into compassion in more detail so I will refrain from commenting on what you said. Just know, I totally agree with what you wrote. None of us fully knows what it is like to be another person.
And thank you for calling me a true warrior in compassion. That is so kind. I really do try my best to be and spread compassion in all that I do. And it is one of my goals to always create a safe space for people to talk openly. Love has to be unconditional and that is what I try to give to everyone that I meet.
I still find myself bothered by what I perceive to be hypocrisy, but like you, not nearly as much as I used to. Part of that, as you so beautifully wrote, has to do with perfectionist tendencies which I used to cloak myself in morning, noon and night. As I’ve lessened my need for the outer appearances of perfectionism, which were masking my inner imperfections (hypocrisy at work!), I’ve been able to view the world with more compassionate eyes.
I think as humans we are master compartmentalizers. (That’s a funny word!) I know from my own experience that I can easily say I’m all about love, but still harbor ill feelings toward someone who wronged me, for instance. Why am I able to do that? Because I have that person in their own little compartment, sectioned off from the rest of how I proclaim to think or live life. Eventually, though, the longer I’m on the path of awakening, the more obvious it becomes that I have stowaways in my brain! And then I’m forced to reconcile it.
What an interesting post, though, Nadia, and such interesting timing, given the huge energetic shift that’s taken place. Thank you for putting this out to the world as you have, and I can’t wait for Sunday’s post!
.-= Megan “JoyGirl!” Bord´s last blog ..7 Steps for Climbing the Staircase to Joy =-.
Hi Megan,
Thank you so much for being so open in your struggles with perfectionism and seeing hypocrisy in others. When I was miserable, I was immersed in being a perfectionist. It is so ironic to me that the happier I became, the less of a perfectionist I became. Now if I make a fool of myself, I can laugh along with it and not let it get to me.
I think when we are at peace with who we are then we are able to give compassion quite easily. Usually the way we treat others is a reflection of how we treat ourselves. So we are all works in progress.
And I hope you enjoy part two of this post.
Hi Nadia!
Your writing is nothing short of elegant! And THAT is MY judgment for this morning!
Seriously, I have never known a happy perfectionist, have you? I don’t know where this “bug” comes from, this perfectionist thing, but with it comes nothing but a self-centered misery and a daily diet of judgment. How else to know if things are “perfect” if there is no pre-occupation with judging? It’s death trap spiritually. I cringe inside when people casually and jokingly describe themselves as perfectionist — and then I pray for them!
Hypocrisy, to me, is the by-product or side effect of lack of awareness, of not being in touch with what you profess to believe, a total unconsciousness. Like you, I went thru an era of screaming about it – it’s not very effective is it?
To live a life of love and compassion sets the tone for peace. I am looking forward to your Part 2!
Namaste,
suZen
Hi Suzen,
You are so kind. Thank you so much for all that you wrote. You rock!
I have never known a happy perfectionist either. I know for me that I was a perfectionist out of pain and feeling inferior. My childhood totally sucked so my way of dealing with the pain was to mask it by trying to always be perfect. I was really demanding of myself and when I saw others who were not, it just would bother me. That led to an intolerance of hypocrisy. Thankfully I was able to change direction and heal. So there is a way to overcome perfectionism. Ironically, I do think that you have to hit rock bottom on some level before you are ready to live life differently.
And you are so right, love and compassion definitely sets the tone for peace. I hope you like part two!
Dear Nadia
I so understand where you were and are coming from. My first experience with hypocrisy was in the religion I used to be in (Catholic). I took the words seriously, and yet as I grew up I noticed that most people did not. And then there came a point in my life where it was absurd to see people going to church and claiming how this or that is so wrong with society, when they themselves were cruel, manipulative, without compassion, judgmental, gossipers, etc, etc….
So when my spiritual awakening came, it was only the right thing for me to disconnect myself from any religious affiliations. I saw through a lot and decided to walk my own path.
And today, I have disconnected myself enough to not care what the religious people do or don’t do…their life, their choice, their path. (Not to mean I don’t have compassion for them, but I have a better understanding of why they do what they do…religions are very limiting and often condition people into one way of seeing only) That also does not mean that I still don’t feel a little too much passion for new issues, even bigger issues than the gossiping and name calling people do to each other…. the biggest one I have, to be honest is in the spiritual circles, all these people talk about awakening and compassion, but ask them to stop eating meat to prevent the torture and killing of animals and see their reaction….
So for the most part, I know that we are each on our own path and the perfection of all that is unfolds as it is meant to be, but there are still moments of passion within, where I totally understand how you feel and where you are coming from. Great post!
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Hi Evita,
Being that my background is half Catholic, I know exactly what you are saying. I used to find it funny that many would be pro-life and yet pro-death penalty. I never understood that. And being that I have been a vegetarian for twenty-one years, I know what you mean about the reactions of people when you start to talk about not eating animal products. I have been there and seen that more times than I would like to remember.
I think there is nothing wrong with being passionate about issues. Passion is not a bad thing…actually it is a wonderful trait to have. The key I have found is to balance it with tolerance and compassion. Part two goes into that a bit more so I will not say anymore about it here.
Hope all is awesome!
Hi Nadia,
I’m happy you came to the conclusion that you could share this story in two parts! Reading the first part felt like sitting across from you and listening to you tell a really interesting story. I was anxious for each paragraph! However we come to it, it is always wonderful when we can find imagery or whatever to make us laugh at ourselves when we’re being too serious or too black and white about life and the people around us. I certainly recognized myself in your description of having a “hurricane of frustration” over someone else’s actions. I’m looking forward to part two!!
.-= Jodi at Joy Discovered´s last blog ..Happy Thanksgiving! =-.
Hi Jodi,
Thank you so much for your words about this post. I really do appreciate it. And yes, imagery can be a powerful reminder when we are going off track. It really makes a difference and nothing so humbling as being able to laugh at how crazy we can be.
I hope you like part two as much as part one! Hope all is awesome!
Nadia:
Thanks for sharing your story. As a Catholic, I’ve heard the term “parking lot Catholic,” meaning that we can offer others a handshake for peace during mass, but once we’re in our cars, its another story. I’ve seen some examples of this throughout my life. Thankfully, not too often.
Your post also touches on something that is important to me…judgment. I would say that its human nature to judge others. But I think we really do a dis-service to the world if we spend too much energy doing this. I really strive not to do it, because we really don’t know what anyone else is going through. Unfortunately, I witness a lot of people judging others and it makes me feel uncomfortable.
Thank you for sharing some great thoughts (and questions) on this topic!
.-= Tim´s last blog ..Character =-.
Hi Tim,
You are so fortunate not to have seen many examples of “parking lot Catholics”. I have seen more than I would like to remember. My mother was Catholic and I used to go with her to mass whenever she felt compelled to go. Actually, I loved the whole feeling of being in a church and it is something that I still love even though I would not consider myself a devout Catholic.
As for judgment, we all have done it and will still do it. Hopefully, with more love and compassion it will diminish over time. I think the reason why people do it is because they are lacking in compassion. The more miserable a person is, the more likely they will judge. I have seen it time and time again in my life. Those who are at peace with themselves and their lives are less likely to judge than those who are miserable. Part two will go into this aspect in more detail. I hope you will read it and share your thoughts since judgement is something that is important to you.
HI Nadia,
I loved this post..and I am so looking forward to the second part..cause so know I will love it as well.
As for hypocrisy and judgment…I had the exact same attitude as you had in the beginning of my spiritual journey. I could tell people off so fast, it made their head spin…
But, in time and with more and more understanding and with great guidance from my faith and religion,I have come to realize there is a better more loving way of changing the world
I still get frustrated, when i see hypocrisy…but i think what would our spiritual guides do?? would they get frustrated or would they handle this situation with love?? I try my level best to handle with love, cause really thats the only true feeling that comes from the soul and touches the heart.
Lots of love and hugs
Zeenat.
.-= Zeenat{Positive Provocations}´s last blog ..RAOKA:Beauty-The Beautiful Smile Experiment =-.
Hi Zeenat,
Amen to the idea that there is a more loving way to change the world. I totally agree. All the prophets were rooted in love. I know that in both Islam and in Hinduism there are many names/attributes that are given to the Divine. My absolute favorite is the merciful because I think the says it all to me. If God is merciful with all of us, can’t we do the same? Part two will get into that aspect in a bit more detail. I hope you enjoy it as much as you enjoyed part one.
And I loved how you said that you used to tell people off so fast, that their head would spin. I love the imagery of that…I used to do that too. I am happy we have both moved beyond that.
I enjoyed part 1, Nadia. Looking forward to part 2. Thank you…
.-= Craig Kausen´s last blog ..Image of the Day: Dr. Seuss’ How the Grinch Stole Christmas (Recording Session) =-.
Hi Craig,
You are most welcome. I hope you enjoy part two as much as part one. Hope all is well!
As of late, I’ve been trying really hard to accept people, especially myself, for just who they are. It’s challenging, but I’ve definitely found things to be a lot lighter and less drama filled when I just listen and accept.
.-= Rocky | R O C K O N O V A.COM´s last blog ..What Every Successful Person Has In Common =-.
Hi Rocky,
Good for you for trying to accept other people and yourself. It is hard at first but with time, it gets easier. So no worries…you are on the right track. And you are so right…it does make life so much lighter.
Hope all is awesome!
I have to admit that I find it revolting when I hear religious people profess hate towards Muslims, homosexuals, interracial couples, are some other group of people that mean no harm to them. It’s very difficult for me to get use to that kind of talk because I can’t help but think about what the next logical step is for this kind of fear-mongering.
But you’re right that the more miserable someone is, the more likely they are to judge. The most judgmental people I’ve ever met clearly have reasons to feel that way sometimes. They’re speaking out of years of pent-up negative emotions. I might as well pity them rather than looking down on them.
.-= Tim — Inspiration Pro´s last blog ..12 Fundamentals of Instant Charisma =-.
Hi Tim,
It is so sad that people profess hate for those who are different than them. Such behavior is rooted in extreme pain and fear. It is a scary way to live. To wake up each day and experience each day with such immense anger has got to be draining and not fun at all. It is hard for such people to feel happiness and my heart goes out to them. The beauty of life is that it is filled with possibilities. And even though some people may have different languages, skin color or customs, we are truly more alike than we realize.
Hi Nadia .. I too resonate with your judgemental, perfectionist person! I am learning through the experience of my mother and through meeting you all the other ways.
People can be so narrow in their thinking – but that’s their choice ..and I must accept that what they do, they do ..
I’m sure we all make paths for others to follow or understand our process and thus help their process ..
Thanks Nadia – great writing .. Hilary Melton-Butcher
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Hi Hilary,
Narrow thinking never really does much. Those of us who suffer from the desire to be a perfectionist usually are that way because somewhere along the way we felt we were not perfect as we are. At least, that is what I have noticed.
One of the many beautiful things about being alive is that we are all works in progress. We are all trying to do our best and be our best. Some may do a better job of making the most out of what they have but we are all trying our best. I have no doubt about that and that makes the need to judge less tempting. People usually judge out of pain.
As I said, we are all works in progress and we just need to be compassionate not only with ourselves but with everyone else too.
Hope all is well!
Studying argumentation gave me a much better model for dealing with ambiguity and shades of gray. So many things are shades of gray, so I wish I had studied it long ago. It’s easier for me to walk a mental model know and evaluate evidence and shift perspectives. While I did it before intuitively, I like the fact I have some basic skills now and it’s more effective.
I think we’ll always have an issue when we have a conflict of values. However, I see a lot of conflicts that are really just conflicts of style, and this is where some interpersonal skills help a lot. As far as conflict of values, it always seems like the best solution is find a better fit, and practice tolerance over conversion.
.-= J.D. Meier´s last blog ..Lessons Learned from Guy Kawasaki =-.
Hi JD,
You raise a great point about how many conflicts are really conflicts of style. That is so true. Most of the time people are saying the same thing but using different terms. People focus on the terms and not the essence and hence, we get conflict. That is where love and tolerance come into play as I mentioned in part two.
Hope all is awesome!
Nadia,
I really enjoyed this, knowing more about you and your journey. We sound so similar. Hypocrisy has always pushed my buttons, big time! Enough so that it invited me to be darn sure I walked my own talk. (LOL) I am intrigued by your idea of one prophet preparing the way for another, too. That wisdom can build, greater clarity can come. Yes, sounds good to me. I look forward to part 2! May all beings be happy…
Hi Jan,
Thank you for the positive feedback. I think we all have buttons where hypocrisy is concerned. Part of being human, I guess. As for the idea of one prophet paving the way for another is something that I learned as a result of my studies. Each one seems to build on the message of the person before them and the cycle continues.
As for part two, it is now available. And yes, may all beings be happy!
So here’s hypocrisy of a kind…I’ve been so wrapped up in my on mind tangle tango that I haven’t stopped by to read your blog in over a week…And I’m so “all about friendship”…I missed the death of another bloggers Dad, and I’ve found myself really pissed off at Joe Liberman (thinking really mean thoughts, because I totally disagree with his politics!…I try to be compassionate and yet get caught up in my own judgment of myself and others…so am I possessed, do I have multiple personalities…or am I just normal and trying to hold all of it as my reality…I think the last one. I think we all have our moments of poor communication (and that goes for listening as well as speaking/or shouting)…but if there were such a thing as an absolute truth, perhaps it would be that we are creatures who live in a state of constant change…and if we can embrace that…then our shifting or lifting judgments can all be held as part of the wholeness of our experience. I hope this makes sense.
xoxo
laura
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Hi Laura,
No worries about not visiting my blog in a while. I know how things can get and I so understand what you wrote. I sometimes read news stories that make my blood begin to boil so I totally get what you are saying.
You are definitely right about how all of us are beings that live in a state of constant change. What you wrote made sense. Each day we grow and evolve…I look back at what I used to believe five years ago and I have grown so much since then. So in a way, nothing is really constant (except the existence of a higher power/the Universe/God).
Love and hugs to you!
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