The Universe/God has a sense of humor. Often we are given little hints along the way. I don’t know about you but I have often ignored some of those hints. I would like to share one with you as it relates to my search for a new career.
When I was twelve, my parents had to go on a trip so they left me with their very close friends. These two people were like an aunt and uncle to me. I loved them dearly and they felt the same about me. Anyway, one day while I was staying there, my uncle sat me down on the kitchen table and told me the following:
“Nadia, I may not be around when you are older but if you remember anything I ever told you, please remember what I am about to tell you.” I nodded my head in agreement and was curious as to what he was about to tell me.
“When you are ready to pick a career, I think it is best if you were your own boss. Have your own business,” he said with such love.
Being that I was a curious person, I naturally asked him why and here is what he said: “Well…you are just not the kind of person who blends in very easily. You march to the beat of your own drum and not everyone understands that.”
I was already complexed with feeling like a freak and this discussion was not making me feel any better about myself. I think it showed on my face because my uncle went on to tell me: “That is a good thing. The majority of the world sees things in black and white. You see things in bright colors and not everyone gets that. It is nothing to be ashamed about…just accept it and be your own boss. You will have more fun.”
My uncle passed on three years later and I never forgot that conversation even though I never followed a single thing he advised me to do. However, even though I ignored his advice, the Universe sent other hints. For example, my father has been telling me for years to be my own boss because I am not the kind of person who works well in structured environments. I ignored him too.
Then a few months ago, a few other people suggested the same thing too.
So here I am in the process of trying to figure out how to align my outer life with my inner life and these memories have been rising to the surface quite frequently. Almost everywhere I go, I am given a sign that I need to be my own boss. It is an interesting idea because I have never seriously considered it.
Why have I never considered it? I never really felt that there was anything I was really good at doing that would merit me having my own business. However, this has changed because I do recognize that I do have many skills which can be used to help others. This has been a wonderful realization.
Since these concepts have been on my mind, I have started to notice how so many people run their own companies. It then occurred to me that the people that I admire, all began with their own businesses which blossomed into something bigger. I do not know all the details yet but I do think there is a new path emerging here and I am thrilled.
I have no idea how things will turn out but I am beginning to realize that maybe there is a way to be my own boss and have a business that is truly reflective of what I am good at doing. This is so cool and yet a bit scary too. I have never felt more alive!
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Yay!!!! Go for it Nadia .. the world needs you!
Funny how things we never thought of suddenly take on a life of their own. I guess that the aliveness you’re feeling now is a pretty clear sign that this step, in whatever form you take it, means something important to you.
.-= Ian | Quantum Learning´s last blog ..The Truth And The Only Way =-.
Hi Ian,
Thank you so much for the support! I really appreciate it.
Life works in interesting ways. Being unemployed really opened my eyes to the fact that I needed to have my outer life reflect my inner life. So one thing lead to another and here I am. So it will be interesting to see how things develop. I am really excited because it feels right on so many levels.
Hope all is awesome with you, my friend!
Great ! You’ve come to a good point. I also think we start understanding who we are and what we are capable of only when we start being our own bosses. Go for it Nadia as Ian has said.
We are awaiting your success. Good luck !
.-= vikum´s last blog ..Developing the achievement muscle =-.
Hi Vikum,
Long time, no talk. How are you doing?
Thank you so much for your support. It is interesting how we need to experience all kinds of things until we hit upon the path that feels right. So I am very grateful to be where I am and even more curious to see how this will play itself out. Either way, I am not worried. Life has a beautiful way of taking us to where we need to be.
Your uncle had had predicted about career very perfectly I think. How thoughtful of him!
All d best for everything! Go ahead… 
And how beautiful you are on the way to be of your own boss!
.-= Sonia´s last blog ..Carrot Nuts Coffee Cake =-.
Hi Sonia,
Thank you so much for the encouragement and support!
It is kind of funny how my uncle saw this when I was twelve and yet it took me so many years to fully grasp what he was saying. I guess I needed to experience all the other ways until I was ready for this method. So much of life is a matter of timing. We need to be ready to go in certain directions and I believe I am ready to go in this direction. I have no idea what will happen but I know all will be okay.
Nadia,
I am so happy for you! I feel such joy and life in your words here today…joy and life in all the possibilities that are within you! And maybe even more, it just feels “right”, what you are embarking on. It feels like you are really aligning with your true self, and seeing that is beautiful. You have an amazing gift of love and compassion in your heart, and sharing that with the world will touch lives in some beautiful and magical ways. And know that I’ll support you any way I can in this journey you are on.
Peace and love,
Lance
.-= Lance´s last blog ..Sunday Thought For The Day =-.
Hi Lance,
I am happy too. Scared but happy.
Thank you so much for always being such a wonderful and supportive friend. I am very grateful.
As I have said in other replies to comments, I have no idea what will exactly happen but I do feel that this is a road that I need to explore. It feels right on so many levels. This phase of being unemployed really made me realize that I needed to focus my attention in having my outer life really reflect my inner life.
Every thing happens for a reason so I know that my experiences have brought me to this point. I know that a few years ago, I would not have been able to even consider such an idea of having my own business. But now, it is a possibility and I shall give it my all.
Here’s to seeing the world in bright colors.
Do you, Nadia. Do. You.
.-= Nelia´s last blog ..The Sticking Point =-.
Hi Nelia,
Amen for seeing the world in bright colors.
It is interesting how life can be. I have always been a free spirit who saw the amazing possibilities in life. I was a dreamer and not everyone always understood that. I knew from an early age that life was more than just getting older, getting married, having kids and then dying. I knew with every ounce of my being that there was something greater at play but I just did not know what that was.
Spirituality helped me on so many levels but for some reason, it never really effected how I handled work. I just did whatever jobs I could find. From being a lawyer to being a secretary and so on. Then when I became unemployed in the fall, I started to realize how I needed to apply my spiritual outlook to work. It then became very apparent that I have never been the kind of person who did things normally and that I needed to embrace that aspect when it comes to work. I realized that I needed to align my outer life (meaning my career) to my inner life.
So this where I am and now I can see how being my own boss will give me the freedom to be me. So I will definitely be true to myself. Aligned in every way! I have no idea how things will play out but I have faith in knowing that life always works out for the best.
Hope all is awesome with you!
I can relate to what you are saying here. I am also a person who doesn’t quite fit the mold in structured, hierarchical organizations. I have realized that I need to be my own boss, but I also have always felt that I had nothing relevent to offer as a business.
Well … I’m starting to change my thinking a little and am beginning to create something I love that can serve as my business and can help people (I hope!!!)
I wish you much luck and excitement as you continue unfolding your new venture!!!
.-= Glad´s last blog ..Winter =-.
Hi Glad,
Thank you so much for the well wishes! I wish you the same too!
Good for you for starting to create something that you love. That is wonderful. I have always felt that work was something that had to be loved. I have only known a handle full of people who truly love what they do. The majority seem miserable and I have been part of that group for a while.
Being unemployed really forced me to take a look at what I had been doing wrong and it was an eye opener. I looked back at all my previous jobs and realized that I never was ever being true to myself. I did certain gigs out of convenience and not passion. When I saw the movie “The Guitar”, that changed everything for me and made me determined to have my outer life match my inner life.
I have no idea how things will exactly pan out but I am going to explore this path and see where it takes me.
I have often felt out of sync in a structured world. I am also thinking about going out on my own. Although it is a risk, I am willing to take it. Your blog helps me stay positive and gives me courage to go in the direction I know I need to go. You are clearly intelligent, caring, and beautiful. I think that you will succeed in whatever you pursue.
.-= lena´s last blog ..Weight Update–Keeping Chin Up =-.
Hi Lena,
Thank you so much for all that you wrote. I am so blessed to have such supportive readers. To be candid, I am scared of the road ahead but I also know that this is the only path that feels right at the moment. I have no idea what will happen but I am determined to give it my all. Some way and some how things will work out. I just need to take the leap and I am ready to do so.
Good for you for being at a point where you are ready to take the risk. If you ever want to compare notes or need some cheering on, you know where to find me!
Hi Nadia:
Wow, the story with your uncle is very powerful…thank you for sharing. I could picture reacting much the same way you did…not really knowing how to take the suggestion and probably ignoring it (at least initially). As I’ve been in transition, I am getting urges to start my own business or service of some kind. I don’t know what that would be. But I will continue to explore this…even if I end up getting hired somewhere. I wish you luck on uncovering your calling.
Hi Tim,
Even though I spent a lot of time with my uncle, that one incident is the one that sticks out the most which is funny considering I ignored the advice for so long. God has a sense of humor because only when I was unemployed and really trying to figure out what kind of job would really make my art sing, I kept being reminded of how it may be better if I were my own boss. So I have decided to explore that route. I have no idea how things will pan out but I am going to give it a shot and see where I end up.
I know that you are in transition too. Maybe that is why we are able to consider such an option. I am sure that your exploration will take you to where you need to be. If I can help in any way, just let me know.
Hi Nadia, very inspirational stuff!
You’re drawing on some very important elements here in finding one’s life work. One of the first things to consider is our personalities, what sort of environments we thrive in and which ones we don’t. Then, what we are interested in, and what we are actually good at and enjoy doing.
Lastly, one of the things you also mentioned is the people you admire. Often if we look at the personal stories that give us the most inspiration we can find what we’re really meant to do, what would excite us the most. It seems you’re totally hitting on it all here, so good for you!
Finally, turning it all into a viable business model is what holds a lot of people back. Yet, you’ll likely find that many of the people you admire might have figured that out along the way, rather than starting there.
I really look forward to reading more about this turn in your life, these realizations, and to see where all this energy leads you. You’re eyes are open to the signs, and that’s a wonderful thing!
Cheers,
Miche
.-= Miche – Serenity Hacker´s last blog ..Making Big Changes: Energy and Resistance =-.
Hi Miche,
Thank you so much for the interest in my journey and all the encouragement! I really appreciate it.
It is amazing how many resources there are for those who are interested in starting their own business. As with anything in life, preparation is really important. I plan to study all the materials and make decisions based on what I discover. The good thing is that it seems doable.
My parents left their homeland to pursue their dreams. They came with only $500 and achieved all that they wanted. That was a huge risk and if they could do it, I can do it too. I am sure that things will work out on some level. They always do. I am blessed to have a very supportive husband, father, friends and blog readers. That helps a lot too.
And I definitely do plan to share the journey…every step of the way!
Cheers to you too!
Excellent stuff, Nadia.
I find it funny that we’re going through a lot of the same things, even freaky. You don’t realize what you can do until you realize, which makes you wonder why you didn’t realize before you realized
Looking forward to your adventure!
.-= Henri @ Wake Up Cloud´s last blog ..My Journey to Making Money Online =-.
Hi Henri,
Thank you for the positive feedback and yay for being on a similar journey!
So much of life boils down to timing. I think I could not have even considered being my own boss unless I had experienced what I have been experiencing. Life has a beautiful way of taking us to where we need to go.
I look forward to your adventure too, my friend!
What an exciting place you are at, Nadia!! Do you have any idea of what business will be yours? You already know and are keeping us all in suspense ??
I’m so so so happy for you!!! I know you will fly your bright colors high!
xo
.-= Jannie Funster´s last blog ..The Queen Of Remodeling Patience, Chapter 1 — “Front Room” View-A =-.
Hi Jannie,
Thank you so much for all the support and encouragement!
I do have an idea of what it will be but will not say anything until I am 100% sure. I am now in the stages of doing all the research and trying to figure out where we will move to since we have no clue. So many changes are happening at once. It is very exciting.
That said, I definitely plan to share the journey with all of you. I would not want it any either way.
Nadia, many blessings & best wishes. These are powerful and empowering realizations that you are embracing, so exciting! It can be confusing to think about all the signals & clues we are given, but I have courage that this is what we must do to serve ourselves & the world best…. Thank you for sharing your journey & inspiring us…
.-= Elize´s last blog ..elephants, tears & gratitude =-.
Hi Elize,
Thank you so much for the blessings and support!
In my experience, I have come to notice that when a person is meant to embark on a new journey, the signs come frequent and very obvious. Yes, there are subtle signs but I think those come when you are in the process of figuring out what is happening.
For example, I can see how some signs about having to align my outer life with my inner life began last summer. I just did not know how to proceed. So it is really a matter of timing. So when a person is ready, the signs become obvious. Or maybe a better way to say it is that the signs are always obvious but we are just not ready to see them.
Hi Nadia,
Here is a prayer wishing for the best to come your way!! Enjoy the journey!
Have an awesome Sunday!
Hi Lotus,
Thank you for the prayer! I could use as many blessings as possible and I intend to enjoy the journey.
Hope all is well with you!
Hi Nadia
Oh I too have resisted being self employed and yet here I am. Happy and yes, scared too.
But joyful because I am learning in context so my learning makes senes.
Joyful because I can BE who I am and joyful because I work in a heart-centered team with Ann-Marie and John.
Nadia, I too so wanted to be 100% sure that I knew what I was doing and to know that it would work out, before telling anyone, that I stayed quiet while John was declaring it all over the place. I often wanted to crawl under the table when he declared openly what we were on about in the early days. I was so unsure and so vulnerable to the failing thought.
However I am learning that not declaring things because I still am not sure, is not always helpful as with declaring people can support you and info comes your way.
I am learning that the main thing is that I love what I do, THAT will make it work.
Oh Nadia, I am so pleased you are getting clarity, nothing is worse that that place in between, at least I find it hard to be patient and let it unfold. It requires trust that I am building but still not fully possess.
Nadia, keep hanging in there, it will happen if you keep listening to your heart while quieten the troublesome ego down.
Oh what an amazing journey we are on, I too never thought self employment was for me and look at us.
Lots of love, my friend, lots of love, xox Wilma
.-= Wilma Ham´s last blog ..When is ‘enough’ enough? =-.
Hi Wilma,
Thank you so much for all the loving support and encouragement! I really appreciate it.
I know within my heart that all will work out. I have no idea how it will work out…meaning I do not know the details of what will be but I do know that is will be fine. My fear is not in a fear of failing (I don’t believe in the concept of failure) as much as this is something that is so unknown to me. It is the newness of the journey which is somewhat scary but a good kind of scary. I hope that makes sense.
As for what not openly declaring anything yet it is more out of the feeling that there is nothing declare yet because everything is in the beginning stages. That said, I do plan to share things as they develop. This is a whole new experience and there is so much to learn and figure out. It is very exciting on so many levels.
And good for you for being self-employed and enjoying the journey! That is so wonderful that you, Ann Marie and John made that happen. Yay!
Lots of love to you too!
Nadia, I’ve found in the past that when I’m feeling scared and excited at the same time, it’s generally a hint to go for it. It seems that’s the place you’re finding yourself in. And I say Go For It! What have you got to lose and what could you gain? Nothing and probably a lot. I am totally curious as to how the next phase of your journey unfolds.
.-= Sami – Life, Laughs & Lemmings´s last blog ..The Definitive Guide to Being An Aussie =-.
Hi Sami,
Thank you so much for the support! You hit the nail on the head. My feeling of fear is a combination of excitement and the thrill of being on a new journey. It is so new on so many levels it is very interesting. I am not concerned about failing because I just do not care about that. I just have no idea where this road will lead but that is cool too. I plan to go for it and what will be, will be.
And I definitely plan to share the entire journey on here.
Nadia,
LOL:) I can be so literal at times that as I was reading I thought oh good, Nadia’s going to teach drumming….
I am so excited to watch as this area of your life unfolds…I can’t imagine what the result will be but that is half of the fun:) I’m watching you prepare to jump..very thrilling..very cool indeed!
Hi Joy,
Teach drumming? Hmmmm…..that may happen…you never know.
Thank you so much for the support and encouragement! Many times in my life I have jumped off of cliffs without much thought about where I will land. This time the jump seems a bit more scary but that just makes it so much more fun. It will be interesting to see how things will fall into place.
Way to be, Nadia! I love that you’re considering new possibilities you wouldn’t have given much thought to before today. You weren’t ready to consider them any earlier than now, in my opinion. Today, though, you’re being moved into position to build a much happier and more fulfilling work future, and what a glorious one it will be! It will use every skill you possess in a good and balanced way, and feel very heart-centered, I’ll bet.
You will SHINE!
Good fortune to you, my friend!
.-= Megan “JoyGirl!” Bord´s last blog ..Love, the Eternal Law =-.
Hi Megan,
Thank you so much for all the wonderful things you wrote! I am so blessed to have such wonderful friends and readers. I am so thankful to all of you…words cannot describe the gratitude.
You are right, so much of life is a matter of timing. I was not ready to consider being my own boss until recently. So this is all happening for a reason. It will be interesting to see how it all develops. I am happy, I am scared but it is all good.
Hi Nadia,
As I was reading your story, it reminded me of when we started out business in 1992. We were uncertain if that was the route we should go, so we “threw it out there”. We bid a good size job and said if we got the got, it was meant to be, if not, we would explore other avenues and probably go work for someone else. Well, we got that job and the rest is history.
Although self employment can be scary, we never looked back.
My advice is to BELIEVE. The cards will fall into place and years from now you’ll be asking us if we “remember when?” And I’ll say, “yes”.
.-= Barbara Swafford´s last blog ..Unveiling The Results Of My Facelift =-.
Hi Barbara,
Thank you so much for sharing your experience and more importantly for the support. You are right, belief is key. One of the many beautiful things about life is that things always have a way of falling into place. I have no doubt about that. My fear is due to the fact that this is so new to me. That also makes it exciting. I am just taking things one day at a time and am rooted in faith that this will work out some way and some how. It will be cool to see where this will lead.
And I look forward to that day you mentioned!
A great story and I could really imagine the impression that your parent’s friends’ advice had on you. It’s also really neat how you show that your journey is just beginning but feels right. Very inspiring.
It’s funny how we look back on one thing and it is so much stronger in our memories than all the other thoughts. Good thing for that!
Hi David,
Thank you so much for all that you wrote. I am happy to provide inspiration.
I think we remember certain things because on some level we know we will need to remember them. Maybe that entire conversation had to happen because of where I am now. Nothing is by chance and so it is up to us to connect the dots. Sometimes we can with great ease and sometimes we need to get to the point where the dots are a bit more obvious.
I appreciate your uncle…mind he should be a great person in his life.you can manage the things which you learned from him…keep sharing.
Hi Web Design Company,
Thank you so much for all the kind things you wrote and the support. I definitely will keep sharing.
Hi Nadia,
It is such a privilege to be part of your journey. Every new decision you make is exciting and fresh. I wish you all the best in this newest endeavor.
Have a fantastic week! Jodi
.-= Jodi at Joy Discovered´s last blog ..A Small Dose of Self-Care =-.
Hi Jodi,
Thank you so much for all that you wrote and for the support! I really appreciate it.
You never know where life will take you and so this will be an interesting ride!
Have a fantastic week too!
I think the key is to always drive from your life style.
I think the best book I’ve read on being your own boss is, the E-Myth, by Michael Gerber. He tells a great story and I like his frame: the Entrepreneur, the Manager, and the Technician.
.-= J.D. Meier´s last blog ..Spiritual Intelligence =-.
Hi JD,
Thank you for the book recommendation. I will have to add that to my list. I just ordered a whole bunch of books on how to start your own business and so I am always on the lookout for more information on the subject.
As for your first statement, could you clarify it a bit? I think I know what you mean but I do not want to make any assumptions.
Hi Nadia .. that is so wonderful to hear. Gosh what an amazing man your uncle must have been and I’m so pleased he sat you down then and didn’t wait til you were older, when it would have been too late.
It’s that starting point – and I’m sure you’re on that road and will have an amazing outreaching business to help all kinds of people you’re not reaching now .. what an amazing journey and I’m loving being here with you. It’s enlightening for us all. Thank you – Hilary
.-= Hilary´s last blog ..Great British Garden Birdwatch =-.
Hi Hilary,
My uncle was a really great guy. He was an artist and actually, was self-employed too. He loved his life and I am grateful for the time we spent together. And you are right, it is great that he did not wait to tell me that advice.
And thank you so much for all the support as I start this new journey. It is very exciting and very new. I definitely will share it with all of you. I also hope to be able to help as many people as I can. That would be wonderful.
Hope all is well!
Hi Nadia! Oh how exciting – you are coming full circle! That’s why it’s feeling all tingly – exciting and scary at the same time. Don’t sweat the scary! I’m with Barbara – BELIEVE!
It’s so cool that you can dig down (into your past) and hear those messages. In journaling classes I had the gals do a lot of exercises that sort of resurrect clues from childhood – amazing what would come up – things they’d long forgotten, signs that were there, messages they ignored – etc. When those “Aha!” moments come, it’s time for a real joy-dance – YAHOO!
I can look back (ah yes, LOTS to look back on when you’re my age! ha!) and hear my dad telling me I should be a teacher. YIKES. How AWFUL I thought! I thought he was certifiable. When that clicked into place (late thirties) those were some really really happy years! But who would have thunk it? Oh I didn’t teach in the “normal” realm, oh no. I taught enrichment classes, and creative thinking/problem solving. Spent a few years teaching in Montessori schools, then women’s journal writing for a decade or so. It was all so wonderful! NONE of it would I have believed or predicted and it all started with a leap of faith, nothing more, just an inkling that was twinkling!
Twinkle on, my girl!
Hugs,
suZen
Hi SuZen,
Thank you so much for always being so full of love and support! I really appreciate it.
It is funny about the whole fear thing. I am not afraid of failing because I don’t believe in failure. What is causing the fear is that this is all so new and yet on so many levels it feels so right. It is just that this is a whole brand new journey on so many levels.
As for believing….I totally agree and I believe that it will all work out. Everything always does on some level.
And cool on how you became a teacher. I did not know that. Amen for jumping off cliffs….I am a big believer in doing that and have done it many times in my life. It is just that this cliff seems a bit different but that just adds to the joy of it all.
By the way, about digging deep into memories. It is amazing the things we recall and the things that get lost in our mind banks. I have this belief that we remember what we are supposed to remember for reasons that become apparent with time.
You keep twinkling too! And lots of hugs back!
Nadia,
My computer is being repaired with the new Windows -7, version, so I couldn’t
participate in your journey as regularly as I was willing to. However reading the beautiful literature you are producing, I would like to add this and that from me, thinking about you.
A certain king once said to his advisor: – I would like to give you three puzzles to sort out.
If you manage to do this successfully, I will reward you with all the gold available in my kingdom. If you fail in this enterprise, I would have your head cut off in front of everybody. So here you are :
1) When is the most important time in your life? ; 2) Who is the most important person to you? ; Which is the most important job to be done ? You have three days at your disposal. So the king’s advisor started his painful and full of questions and uncertainties journey. He thought and thought intensively, tried to utilize all that he had learned until this very moment,
but all was in vain! He simply could not outsmart himself. He started feeling sorry about his wasted life and began weeping most sincerely. As he kept on walking and crying loudly, that he was about to loose his head, he incidentally, passed by a field of grass, where a small girl was looking after her geese. – “ Why are you crying you poor old man?” – asked the little girl. Although feeling very ashamed of himself and his past pride that had totally deserted him, the old man shared his misfortunes with the child. –‘But this riddle is so simple!’ –exclaimed the little girl: – ‘The most important time in your life is Now, since the Past has already flown away, while the Future has not walked in yet.’ –‘The most important person in your life is the one, who is standing Here and is, Next to me , since
he can walk away and I may never see him again.’ – And – ‘The most important job to be done is, what I am doing Now for the person standing next to me ‘ concluded the little girl.
Greetings , – Mike.
Hi Michael,
I hope that all goes well with your computer and it is always a pleasure to see you here. I am just grateful that people read what I write so no worries.
As usual, you have shared a beautiful story. I love it! Is this of your own creation or did you read it in a book?
Hope all is well with you and your family!
Nadia
I totally believe in your ability to create not just a job for yourself, but a love, a joy an gift for you and the rest of the world to experience. Not only do you see colors where others do not, you have a way of showing those colors to others, waking them up to what they missed just moments before.
gentle steps,
Laura
.-= Laura Hegfield´s last blog ..Happy Place =-.
Hi Laura,
You have touched my heart with what you wrote. May it be true. So from your mouth to God’s Ears!
Thank you so much for being so supportive and I am grateful that our paths have crossed. Blessings to you!
I am so, so happy for you!
Nadia – I will repeat myself again here a little. I had a super happy and comfy job as a teacher until last year and I walked away to be free! And you know what it has been so awesome! I haven’t always been a free spirit like you, but today am soooo much! And hence it is great being your own boss in every way. I didn’t necessarily leave to start a business I just wanted to free myself to go out there follow my passions, which revolve around helping people in the world. And doing it feels so good!
Yes, follow your passion and listen to the Universe – pick up on all those cues and clues! I know I am still in the process myself as I continue to unravel my own path of being.
.-= Evita´s last blog ..Book Review: The Harvard Psychedelic Club =-.
Hi Evita,
Thank you so much for being so supportive!
I know that you have changed your life around and that you love the new life you have created. I think that is wonderful.
It is funny how life works because if you had told me when I was first unemployed that I would be starting my own business, I would not have believed it. So life has an interesting way of taking us to where we need to be.
As I mentioned in another reply, I think the signs are always around us but we just need to be ready to actually see them and/or connect the dots. So much of life is timing.
Hope all is awesome and keep having fun on your journey!
That was some sage advice your uncle gave you…I understand exactly how you’re feeling and I’m sure that since you’re now open to the experience, the Universe will start aligning itself for you to “follow your bliss”.
.-= Loi Laing´s last blog ..A Lawyer’s Path =-.
Hi Loi,
You are right, it was very wise advice. Kind of ironic that it took me a while to actually follow the suggestion.
That said, so much of life boils down to timing. I am sure that things will reveal themselves as need be.
Hope all is awesome with you!
Dear beautiful Nadia, I am sitting here laughing my face off, and I will tell you why.
I thought you ALREADY were your own boss!!! I really did. It never even occurred to me otherwise. LOL!!
Your uncle is right. You father is right and your friends are right. Okay, these are only my gut feelings on this: Inside yourself, you ALREADY ARE your own boss. I think you were BORN your own boss. LOL!! You of all people. Oh I wish you could hear me and see me right now. Because I just don’t have words to describe what I see it you. All I can say is that it’s a done deal with you. I would ask the Universe to show you where you need to go from here. And it’s not really so much about the WHERE and HOW, but more about you being able to fully embrace the decision that YOU are your own boss….if this is what you really want. Not everyone does. We are all different, as you know. But if it is what you want, and you put it out there the Universe will DEFINITELY guide you and SHOW you where you need to go and what you need to do. I’ve no doubt you know all this, but it is what you post inspired in me.
I SO enjoyed this story of your Uncle. He was an amazing man, so was your Dad. That they saw that in you is precious. You are an empowered woman. There is no doubt about that. I found this post thrilling. I also found the way it inspired me thrilling. I too chose to be my own boss. No, wait…..I chose to BE what I ALREADY was/am. I’ve never regretted it. Much love to you, Robin.
.-= Robin Easton´s last blog ..The Power of Our Beliefs =-.
Hi Robin,
I am happy to have provided you with laughter!
That makes me happy!
Thank you so much for all that you wrote. So much comes to mind as a result of reading your comment….I just do not know how to describe it.
I have no doubt that the Universe will guide me. It already is and it is amazing to me how it is all unfolding. So much of life is a matter of timing and this is the right time.
And good for you for choosing how you want to be. Not many people embrace that choice and I think it is wonderful that you live your truth!
Much love to you too!
Geez, I just now saw Loi’s comment up there. We are all on the same wave length. Beautiful!! Hugs, Robin
I wrote this on twitter the other day:
“It is YOUR life. Trust your heart. Live boldly.” ~ Robin Easton
.-= Robin Easton´s last blog ..The Power of Our Beliefs =-.
Hi Robin,
I love that line! Here’s to living boldly and trusting our hearts!
Nadia, I wish you much luck and good fortune in your new endeavors. That’s a great story you shared about your uncle foreseeing your future, and how you could best fit in. I suppose the time hadn’t been right until now. Funny how things work out that way.
.-= Eric | Eden Journal´s last blog ..Creativity Takes Many Forms =-.
Hi Eric,
Thank you so much for the well wishes! I know what you mean about the timing. Kind of funny how I remember that discussion as if it was yesterday and yet I cannot remember what happened over a week ago.
You are so lucky to have received such great advice at a young age. I am glad that you have come to the realization that you have many gifts that you can share. I wish you every success as you embark on a new journey! May you be blessed with much abundance!
.-= Evelyn Lim´s last blog ..Attitude of Gratitude versus Appreciation =-.
Hi Evelyn,
Thank you so much for the well wishes and support! I really appreciate it!
May you be blessed with abundance too!
This is wonderful to read, Nadia, can’t wait to hear more…
.-= Lisa (mommymystic)´s last blog ..January Month in Review (& Blog Shares) =-.
Hi Lisa,
Thank you! This is a wonderful place to be and I look forward to how things develop. Life has an interesting way of taking us to where we need to be.
Hi Nadia,
How wonderful! It’s great that you are recognizing signs and I can feel your joy and energy. It’s also wonderful that you’re sharing this process in real time, as it unfolds. Looking forward to more!
k
.-= Kaushik´s last blog ..A Handbook of Awakening =-.
Hi Kaushik,
Thank you for all that you wrote! I have never felt more alive in my life. And I do plan to share this process as it unfolds. I would not want it any other way.
Hi Nadia,
I love your blog! I am at a similar spot and your beautifully written post felt as if you were writing for both of us! You are honest and your writing is truly refreshing. It leaves me feeling good. Congratulations! My path has led me to http://www.goodoodles.com, the blog I’ve just started to combine my mix of talents and values and try and help, somehow, drop by drop and ripple by ripple, to clear the waters and get our canoe moving in a more positive direction! I’m so tired of all the violent, bad news in the media! Reading your story, and others’ many wonderful bits of good news, is uplifting. How I wish we could shift our focus a bit to include the positives…after all, who decided for us that newspapers and newscasts should be all about the horrible stuff? Let the ripples flow in the other direction, and thanks for all your drops and ripples! I’ll be back. April
Hi April,
Thank you so much for all the wonderful things you wrote! I am grateful!
Good for you for spreading your joy and positive news to the world. I am a big believer in that concept. Actually, when I used to publish posts six days a week, I had one day that was dedicated to just happy news. Unfortunately, it was not that popular. So when I changed my blogging schedule, I had to stop that section. However, I still try to focus on being positive and really do want to inspire people.
There is so much pain out there and often it keeps people stuck. I speak from experience. The beauty about life is that we have the power to create our reality. We can either let our pain keep us trapped or we can choose to break free from it. People often need to know that they can break free from it and I hope to be able to provide that inspiration.
And yay for positive ripples!
Wow – there’s like 71 responses…am I late or what?!
Be your own boss ~ yup ~ I agree. And like you, I’m working my way to being just that.
Yay for you! Yay for me!
You Rock
Hi Peggy,
Yay! Nothing beats being your own boss!
Here’s to that happening and you rock too!
Nadia, just like Robin mentioned above, when I first came to your blog, I also thought you were your own boss. I didn’t know exactly what you were doing but I was sure you were doing something and that something related to being your own boss:) So I can totally see you doing it. In fact I don’t see you doing anything different.
I would also say that with such a popular blog and so many fans you already have a great platform for launching your business. You are definitely on the right path.
I went out on my own almost two years ago and tried so many things. I knew I wanted my own business but didn’t take time to actually get clear on what it should be and what I was passionate about.
As a result I tried starting an online gift registary in Russia, then gift basket store here in US, then affilliate marketing, then couple other things. None of that really worked because I was not clear on what I wanted to do.
Personal development was always a passion of mine, so I started doing small group workshops with a friend of mine just for fun, mostly for our friends. Then more and more people started coming and then one lady actually started insisting to pay us for those workshops (we were doing them for free). After her fifth attempt to pay us, it finally hit me – that’s what I should be doing! Then the idea of Positivity Place was born and we have this great Vision now and feel so alive and excited working toward it one little step at a time.
I truly believe it is important to do what you are passionate about and what is aligned with who you are, which I know, you know that already. So you won’t have to go through all the trials that I did and I am sure whatever you start doing will take off right away.
Please let me know if there is anything I can help you with, not that I consider myself a huge expert:) but I might be able help with some advice.
.-= Lana – DreamFollowers Blog´s last blog ..How To Clear Your Limiting Beliefs =-.
Hi Lana,
Thank you so much for sharing your story and for all that you wrote! Isn’t it wonderful how one thing leads to another and you find yourself realizing what you are supposed to do? The same is happening with me. It feels so right and it is in alignment with every part of myself. It is just kind of funny how it all came together. It is also funny how both you and Robin were of the same mindset.
Actually, the other day I was thinking about all of this and wondered why I did not get this sooner. But then again, everything is a matter of timing. I do not think I would have been fully capable of starting my own business as I am now. Plus, I am a whole lot wiser now and have more to share with the world. So now is the right time.
And I so appreciate your offer to be of help. That is so kind of you and I will definitely be in touch.
“I do have an idea of what it will be but will not say anything until I am 100% sure.” That makes sense.
I am happy and excited for you sharing your journey with us, and for us to share ours with you!!
xo
Hi Jannie,
Glad it made sense!
As for sharing our journeys, that is one of the many joys of blogging. We are part of a community that allows each of us to grow and shine with lots of love and support. Or at least, that is my mindset.
Hi again Nadia,
I don’t know if you read her blog or not, but Marelisa just published a fabulous post titled, Toolbox for Would Be Entrepreneurs – 69 Fantastic Free Resources”. As I read the post I thought of you as you start on your new journey to entrepreneurship.
I hope you find it as helpful as I did.
.-= Barbara Swafford´s last blog ..Unveiling The Results Of My Facelift =-.
Hi Barbara,
Thank you so much for sharing that information with me. I have been doing a lot of research these past few weeks and it is always great to have more resources. So this was just perfect!
By the way, in regard to the formation of LLC’s, the tax laws changed in 2009 in regard to the necessity of an EIN number. The best site for current info regarding business taxation is the website for the IRS.
I hear you Nadia,
That’s my first stop whenever I’m in doubt. My second stop is our State’s website. If it gets too technical, then I leave it up to our accountant. A good accountant is one of the best assets we can have in business.
.-= Barbara Swafford´s last blog ..One, Or A Million =-.
Hi Barbara,
Thank you for sharing your course of action with me.
I have a stack (literally) of business books and one book said something interesting regarding an accountant. They said that even though you may hire one, the business owner is the one who is responsible and liable for any improper reporting. Maybe it is from my days of being a lawyer but that just convinced me on the importance of trying to know as much as humanly possible!
Hope all is awesome!
More power to you Nadia! I think we’re kindred spirits and I too am not meant for the status quo. However while I’m here I’ll leave my mark and maybe other people, through me, will discover their self bossiness – a new term I wish to patent right now,
I can feel your excitement all the way from over here, it’s contagious!
.-= Amit Sodha – The Power Of Choice´s last blog ..7 Enlightened Thoughts For A Kick-Ass Day =-.
Hi Amit,
Yay for being a self-bossiness!
Thank you so much for the support! I have never done anything normal…even when I was born. I came out butt first which was the first sign that I had issues with what is considered the status quo! Yay for being a free spirit and marching to the beat of my own drum!
You came out butt first? Ouch, but kinda cool in a strange way, it’s like you came out with a message to the world, ‘kiss my ass, coz i’m doing things my way!’ I might have to check with my mom to see if I did that too!
Lets hope the phrase self-bossiness catches on!
.-= Amit Sodha – The Power Of Choice´s last blog ..7 Enlightened Thoughts For A Kick-Ass Day =-.
Hi Amit,
Exactly! One time my mom was complaing about how I tend to do this differently. So I told her that she should not be surprised considering how I came into the world. That made her laugh and the complaining stop because she realized that I had a point.
And yes, may the phrase “self-bossiness” catch on!
Nadia,
I just stopped by from “Funsterland” and happened across this post. You sound like you’re at an exciting and important time in your life!
It sounds like the universe is speaking to you. Trust your instincts and try to listen to what the universe is telling you now that you are really ready to hear the messages. The “whole message” probably won’t come to you all at once. It sounds like you’ve already gotten a couple of pieces of solid information from people who know you well. If you keep listening, I’ll bet the messages keep coming from the universe.
You’ll find the path you’re meant to be on. You’ll find your purpose.
In the meantime, enjoy yourself while you embark on this adventure to determine how to proceed career-wise. As James Taylor says in the song “Secret O’ Life”:
“Now the secret of life is enjoying the passage of time”…
So, try not to worry. Being scared but simultaneously excited can mean that you’re on the verge of great things. We can call it… “good scared”.
Follow your intuition and listen to those “voices of the universe”. I will bet things will fall into place.
Jeanne
.-= Jeanne´s last blog ..Cluster Headache Or Migraine? =-.
Hi Jeanne,
Thank you so much for finding your way here through Funsterland and for all that you wrote!
You hit the nail on the head with how I feel about being scared. It is a good kind of scared. I am not afraid of what will happen. It is more a feeling of going into the unknown. For most of my life, my focus and way of things has been very different than what it is at the moment. This is all good. New but good.
Like you, I have no doubt that things will fall into place. They always do.
Hope all is awesome and have a beautiful day!
Wohooooooooooooooo!
I feel your energy moving into this new experience, and I know you will blossom beautifully in all that you are.
It is simply wonderful to read your experiences, and feel your frequency.
Keep shining!
.-= Ana Goncalves´s last blog ..Share your gifts with the world and shine =-.
Hi Ana,
WOO HOO is right!!!!
These last two months have been amazing and I am so grateful for all that has happened. I am thrilled about the journy ahead. I feel like I finally am on the right path in terms of my career.
Keep shining too!
Nadia,
I was thinking over and reflecting on some of the issues you manage to raise with ease and yet delicately provocative. I often have some strange thoughts when left with myself but still
I think that essentially what all of us basically need is love. Yesterday I ran into a strange story, which I thought was worth sharing: “Do you love me? ” – asked the young woman, after staying silent for quite a long period of time, studying him intensively.
- “You know well enough that I do love you.” – he said, his voice sounding rather hoarse and intense.
She then moved up to the window of the room, they occupied and started looking way down the street.
- “And you are able to jump down there , just because of me?” – she asked without even looking at him.
He stood there for a while thoughtfully, then he moved towards the window, opened it and
standing on the edge, said quietly:
- “Go ahead and push me.”
Now this short story struck me as one, delving deep into the human nature. The heroes one can say were behaving like lunatics, from a rationally -cynical point of view.But then from a Zen point of view, it is ‘constructive spontaneity’ that is pursued for not allowing such a terrible thing to happen.
Take care,Nadia.It is only me -Mike.
Hi Michael,
Interesting story which brings so much to mind.
Your point about us needing love is a valid one. I also think that the word “love” is much more broad than the experience of just being loved or giving love. Human beings also want meaning, purpose and a security in the sense of knowing that they will be okay and are okay.
We can either choose to see the world as a cruel place where things happen by a chance or we can choose to see life as an amazing journey where anything is possible. Unfortunately, most people see the world as being a tough place where things happen randomly. People will share stories or incidents that they read about in the newspaper as proof.
However, life is so much more than we realize. We are the creators of our world and anything is possible if we simply believe it is so. I think society has overcomplicated things for no good reason. Intelligence is valued much more than being spiritual. Yet true spiritual intelligence can do wonders. Look at people like Jesus, Buddha, and so on.
In various religious traditions, God is given numerous names to describe His power. One of my favorites is that God is considered merciful. The Universe will constantly gives us signs. We just sometimes are so immersed in other things that we do not see the signs. So much of life boils down to timing. When we are ready to see another way, that is when we start to become aware of all the signs that surround us.
That is what has happened with me in regard to my job search. Being unemployed was a huge gift for it brought me to this point. I am grateful to be on the verge of a new path.
Hope all is well!
I’m just catching up to all your blogs, I particularly liked this one because I always felt I looked at the world differently while growing up too. If you have the will and the capability, definitely start your own thing. I was laid off for about 9 months and I spent the time helping out my friends and working for free. Best 9 months of my career and I was working harder than ever.
Good luck!
Hi Tony,
Thank you so much for sharing your experience and for the support. It is always nice to know that there is another person who looks at the world differently.
I think you’ve hit the nail on the head when you say matching your inner world to your outer world. This resonates with me so much. Having read a few of your posts today, you feel like a kindred spirit to me. If you ever fancy a joint venture?
Go for something you love doing! Something that you want to do, not have to do. Enjoyment is the key.
Once, sitting on a coach, day-dreaming as I stared at the passing clouds out of the window in the blue sky, I felt a knowing come to me. So simple. It simply stated that life is meant to be fun.
Hi Jacqui,
It is always nice to meet another kindred spirit!
And life is meant to be fun. We forget that so much because of all the responsibility and things we have to do. Yet ultimately it is meant to be enjoyed.
As for a joint venture, you never know what the future holds!
I think it’s great that you remembered what your uncle told you… hmmm, I have a granddaughter (almost a year old) and I immediately starting thinking about what great pearl of wisdom I’ll sit her down and tell her that she’ll remember 30 years from now. I guess I have some time to figure that out.
I’m really excited for you and for myself. I’ve noticed that I’ve felt the same way about starting my own business someday and looking forward to learning from your courage and experience. Thanks for sharing.
.-= Jared´s last blog ..Dr. Wayne Dyer’s The Shift and the Realization That Everything You Need is Already Within You =-.
Hi Jared,
I am sure you will have many pearls of wisdom to share with your granddaughter. So you have nothing to worry about.
And thank you for all that you wrote about my adventure into starting my own business. It is a wonderful experience which I plan to share.
Hope all is awesome!
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